What to Say to Motivated Sellers — Exact Phrases That Work

Q: How do I answer 'how much will you give me?' early in the call?

Don't throw a blind number. Say: 'I don't want to guess and insult you — walk me through the condition first and I'll give you a real figure.' It moves the conversation to motivation and condition, where offers are actually built.

Q: What should you never say to a motivated seller?

Never use deadline pressure, never insult the property, never badmouth realtors or other investors, avoid jargon like ARV or assignment, and never promise anything you can't deliver.

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What to say to motivated sellers (word for word).

The short answer: less than you think. Talking to motivated sellers is 70% listening — your job is a calm opener, five good questions in their language, and honest answers to their fears. Below are the exact phrases that open sellers up, the responses to the four objections you'll hear on every call, and the five things you must never say — drawn from training 100+ callers and 30+ acquisition managers.

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The words

How do you talk to a motivated seller?

The exact language for each moment of the conversation — opener, questions, trust, objections, and the words to avoid.

1. The first 30 seconds

Say this first

Your opener has one job: prove you're a calm, real person — not a pitch. Slow down, smile (they hear it), and say:

"Hi, this is [name] — I'm a local investor here in [county]. I'm reaching out about the property on [street]. I don't know if selling is even on your radar, but if it ever were, I buy houses as-is — is that something worth two minutes?"

Why it works: "I don't know if…" removes pressure, "as-is" names their biggest fear (repairs), and asking permission for two minutes hands them control. Sellers keep talking to people who give them control.

2. The five questions that open them up

Then listen

Ask these in their language — then be quiet and let them fill the silence:

"What's got you thinking about selling — what's going on with the house?"

"If you could wave a wand, when would this be solved by?"

"Be honest with me — what would the house need if you were listing it?"

"Is there anything owed on it — mortgage, taxes, anything like that?"

"What would a win look like for you here?"

The 70/30 rule: the seller should do 70% of the talking. Every minute they talk, trust grows and the real motivation surfaces — which is the only thing your offer can actually be built on.

3. The trust phrases

Sprinkle these

Drop these naturally through the call — each one answers a fear the seller won't say out loud:

"You wouldn't fix a thing — we take it exactly as it sits, furniture and all."

"No fees, no commissions, no showings — and you pick the closing date."

"And honestly — if we're not the right fit, I'll tell you that too."

That last line is the most powerful sentence in acquisitions: the moment you show willingness to walk away, you stop sounding like every other investor who called this week.

4. The four objections — and what to say back

Memorize these

"How much will you give me?" (too early):

"Fair question — I don't want to insult you with a blind number. Tell me about the condition first, and I'll give you a real figure instead of a guess."

"That's too low.":

"I hear you — and you might get more listing it. The difference is what I'm buying: as-is, no repairs, no fees, closed on your date. What number would make this easy for you?"

"I need to think about it.":

"Of course — this is a big decision. What's the piece you're most unsure about? … And when should I check back, Thursday or Friday?"

"I'm already talking to a realtor.":

"That might genuinely be your best route. If the listing doesn't go how you hope — or the repairs get scary — keep my number. I'll be here."

5. What NOT to say

Deal killers

Five phrases that end conversations: "I can close in 7 days, but only if you sign today" (pressure reads as scam) · "Your house isn't worth much in this condition" (never insult the asset — describe the work, not the worth) · "A realtor will just rip you off" (badmouthing anyone destroys your credibility) · industry jargon like "ARV", "assignment", "double close" (confusion kills trust) · and any promise you can't keep — one broken commitment and the deal, and every referral behind it, is gone.

Want the full framework? This page gives you the words. The 5-phase script gives you the structure, and the calling guide covers timing and cadence. Together they're the complete conversation system — free.

The principles

Why these words work

Four rules behind every phrase on this page.

Empathy before offer

Motivated sellers are in a hard season — divorce, estates, debt, tenants. The investor who acknowledges the situation earns the right to discuss the house.

Questions beat pitches

Every question transfers the talking to them — and everything they share is material your offer gets built from. Pitching early is negotiating blind.

Control calms fear

"You pick the date", "is that worth two minutes?", "when should I check back?" — handing the seller small choices keeps them in the conversation.

Honesty is the close

"If we're not a fit, I'll tell you" wins more contracts than any pressure tactic ever written. Sellers sign with the person who felt safe.

Elieth Quiroz, founder of Dialing For Deals, on what to say to motivated sellers

"In 59 contracts, I never once out-talked a seller into signing. I out-listened everyone else who called them. Say less, ask better, and mean every word — that's the whole secret. Anyone can win!"

Elieth QuirozFounder · Dialing For Deals

Common questions

Talking to sellers, answered

What investors ask about seller conversations.

What do you say first to a motivated seller?

Introduce yourself as a local investor, name the property, remove the pressure ("I don't know if selling is even on your radar…"), mention you buy as-is, and ask permission for two minutes. A calm, permission-based opener outperforms every clever hook — the first 30 seconds only need to earn the next two minutes.

How do I answer "how much will you give me?" early in the call?

Don't throw a blind number — it will either insult them or overcommit you. Say: "I don't want to guess and insult you — walk me through the condition first and I'll give you a real figure." It's respectful, it's true, and it moves the conversation to motivation and condition, where offers are actually built.

How do I talk to motivated sellers without sounding pushy?

Follow the 70/30 rule (they talk 70%), ask permission at each step, hand them small choices ("Thursday or Friday?"), and be willing to walk away out loud. Pressure comes from taking control; trust comes from giving it.

What should you never say to a motivated seller?

Never use deadline pressure ("only if you sign today"), never insult the property, never badmouth realtors or other investors, avoid jargon like ARV or assignment, and never promise anything you can't deliver. Any one of these can end the deal — and the referrals behind it.

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